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Last week I had an amazing time at the beach. It was
dubbed
“Slugfest 2005,” because the sole agenda was to lie
around and relax like a slug. And I did!
My
“activities” consisted of sleeping nine hours every
night, lying on the couch, reading, afternoon naps, a
little TV, and many walks on the beautiful, nearly empty
beaches with my dog, Emma. I did take a day trip to Cape
Hatteras (I climbed the lighthouse) and Okracoke Island,
but mainly I was a slug.
I really
shocked myself, in a positive way. It seems that every
vacation I take I’m either exploring new or favorite
places or visiting family and friends. I have a great
time, but I arrive home saying, “Wow, I need a vacation!”
The last time I had a slugfest vacation was two years
ago, at the same friend’s beach house at the same beach
on the Outer Banks of North Carolina. All the vacations
between then and now were the more active variety.
Being
“off-season,” many activities weren’t available
(swimming, wind surfing, mini golf, various tours, hang
gliding, golf, etc.) So in a way, I had to be a slug.
Although I had my cell phone, I had no email access (!!)
and didn’t check my office voicemail once. I had left my
number and knew that people could reach me if they
really needed to.
Last week,
I clearly realized the importance of having some of my
vacations be “slugfests.” In that “do-nothing”
atmosphere, I got many insights about my life, received
a host of inspirations about my business, and felt
rejuvenated on a deep level. I also had a number of
great conversations, the kind that often get lost in the
cycle of daily routines. And even though I had been to
this place before, the simple change of venue had a
positive and profound impact.
If you’re
like me, you have some important family and friends who
live far away. I love to visit mine, just like I love
traveling and seeing new sights and exploring other
cultures. It’s not always easy to prioritize being a
slug, but I encourage you to take the plunge and do it
at least once a year. Your slugfest will probably look
different from mine; that’s fine. As long as you stay
clear of the “do, do, do” pattern, which can easily take
over a supposedly relaxing vacation.
I am
making an oath to you that I will take a slugfest
vacation at least once a year. My vacation goal is a
week off every quarter, so that leaves lots of time for
the other kinds of vacation. But the depth relaxation,
the insights, the renewal of a slugfest are essential.
I’d love
to hear from you about the “where and when” of
your Slugfest 2005. Send me an email!