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The Glass Block
Story: Patience Pays Off
I don’t know about you, but patience is not my strong
suit. In most situations, I want to move forward in action.
A few weekends ago I had an amazing experience that
powerfully drove home to me, once again, the value of
patience, especially when it comes to finding creative and
effective solutions to our problems.
The beautiful wood lot next door to our house was recently
cleared to put up two more homes. We knew it was going to
happen sooner or later. On the window that faces the lot, we
had a beautiful stained glass piece, however, the window
showed through about 8” on either side.
Now, with the lot cleared, every time I went by the window,
instead of beautiful greenery, I noticed raw earth, scraped
by the bulldozer. It made me cringe every time. I am a big
believer in the tremendous benefit of setting up our
environment to support us. This includes all kinds of
environments, like clients, friends, beliefs, food, etc. But
in this case it was my physical/social environment.
We had to do something to change that view out the window. I
came up with the idea of a lightweight translucent plastic
roller shade that would go behind the stained glass.
Definitely tacky, but I was adamant I did not want to see
construction for the next six months or look into someone
else’s window for years after that.
Although this idea wasn’t the greatest, I didn’t see any
other option and my perspective, as an impatient,
action-oriented person was “Let’s just put up the shade.”
Fellow “action” friends take note: sometimes action can
be premature.
So what happened? We started tossing ideas around - an
attractive Japanese paper shade of some kind, plastic film
you stick on windows in bathrooms for privacy that still
lets light through, even spray-on coatings.
Yet, we agreed, none were very aesthetically pleasing in our
desire to create an uplifting, beautiful environment that
would positively affect our daily performance and happiness.
To stimulate our idea process, we went to the local home
improvement monster box store and cruised the aisles, trying
to come up with a good solution. No luck.
Finally, frustrated and back home again, I noticed the glass
block I had in my office. It simply sat on my window sill
since I had nowhere to install it, but I had loved it for
years. Was there some way to use the block?
We quickly discovered that the spacing was almost perfect –
one column of glass block on either side would fill the gaps
perfectly. The wave pattern made it so, while light came
through, we didn’t really see what was outside, just some
color.
Now we wondered how we would stack a column of blocks,
without mortar. It turns out they make a plastic insert for
just that purpose – dry-stacking glass blocks.
We bought some blocks and inserts and you would think that
the window had been specifically planned for this purpose. I
was amazed! The solution was perfect. Yet, in my initial
rush to solve the problem, I would never have come up with
this.
It was a wonderful lesson to me to:
1) take enough time to come up with the best solution,
and
2) put your head together with one or more others to
guarantee better solutions.
In this action-oriented culture, there isn’t much value
placed on patience. But let us be wise and not make that
mistake.
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2005 Anne Alexander, all rights reserved in
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Anne
Alexander
Authentic Alternatives
Business Breakthroughs Coaching
Fort Collins CO
970-672-4946
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